Archive for November 2008

A Heart That Feels Is A Heart That Heals.

November 16, 2008

I can already sense Reema smiling again after reading another one on relationships from me, considering I was titled the “Relationship Blogger” by her, so I how can I let her down. Another one for you Reemz.image

I feel lucky. I just simply feel lucky. I have had friends this year, who have been through the worst in the their life. A major reason has been relationships and very serious ones just not working  out for them. The reason that I feel lucky, is not because it didn’t happen to me, I am lucky because I have such amazing friends.

As I write this post, I am chatting with another friend of mine who just broke the news of divorcing her three year marriage just two months back. I find it really strange as I  had lost touch with her ages back and today I am hearing this from her the first day that I get in touch back with her. I am doing everything to ensure that she has the hope in her life and thank the almighty about having disguised blessings as she did not have kids from a man who was having extra marital affair not once but for four times while they were married. This one is for all you guys who have probably thought that your life have ended just because one of your most loved and cherished relationships did not work the way, you would have hoped for it to.

imageHowever, just now look around and see – you have probably “grown”. You have grown stronger mentally. You have grown to realize and read your own emotions. You have walked over water and miles at that. You probably thought your life was completely dependent on someone else, hasn’t it made you realize that your life is not dependent on anyone except you.What does that say about you? Doesn’t it say that you are amazing. Doesn’t it say, that you have someone watching over you to ensure that nothing ends the world for you. Doesn’t it speak volumes about your strength and drive to move on?

Yes, you would need your family and friends to stand by you and support you in your times of distress; but there is only so much they can do. The rest has to be done by you. People will surely hear your pain but they cannot heal you. You have to do it by yourself. And when you do heal, ensure that you are indebted to these people for their entire life; as to heal as well you will need help. A physical wound on your body heals on itself only after someone has applied a bandage on it. They are some family and friends that will stand by you irrespective of anything. Tell them your imagemost heartfelt thank you’s and be there when they may need you. That’s what makes friends and family so invaluable; just so indispensable. 

You probably carry the strength that you can give zillions of people out there, you may just need your support. You probably also have the shoulders to carry and help those who maybe in times of distress as you were. You are a living inspiration to so many others around. Instead of looking at your life and relationship as a failure wouldn’t it be well invested in helping those you may need you. A feeling of being there for someone is the most fulfilling. It is the most satisfying. Yes, some of them that you may help may even forget you once they have moved on; however you were the one with the most honest intentions. You healed a heart. I hope I healed at least one, if not personally, then hopefully through this post!


Questions And Answers.

November 16, 2008

Its 8:30am Sunday morning, and I am awake. This is something that is very unlikely with me. Though, I know that very soon I am going to jump back into bed and go to sleep, however it is still strange that I am up. My mind is working overtime, trying to fix up certain things that have not been so clear to me for the last couple of months. The fact that it has been going on for so long, I have now put my foot down and need to come to a clear cut conclusion about what I strictly need to follow once and for all and just stick by it. Glad! My holiday is just around the corner.

When in life there are some questions that you don’t have answers to and you probably find yourself running around in circles trying to get answers to those questions; it constitutes a lot of things. One, maybe the answers lie with someone else for which they need to give it to you to close everything out in your mind – hopefully honest answers and not something just made up. Two, maybe its better you just don’t have answers and its way too complicated for you anyway’s.

Somehow, my beliefs are more strong in point no one, even though I am well aware that sometimes it just wont happen that way. When you have a complete closure to certain things, you heal well. Not everyone is going to understand this aspect. Also, looking at a vice versa situation, if you are the one who needs to be giving honest answers to someone whom you know needs it – please fight all the devils coming in your way to go ahead and give them that to close the fight that they may be having with themselves.

The interesting part here would be to observe if that opposite person really understands you well, enough to give you that kind of comfort to come out and heal you even though they maybe fighting with themselves or can also be the ones to hurt you in the first place. Responsible people will come out and ensure all your questions are answered and you are feeling fine, people who love you unconditionally will also do the same – the rest who don’t; probably that’s the biggest silent answer you have right in front of your eyes. Have you really opened your eyes to that is another question?

Adios…not forever.

November 15, 2008

OLA…sorry for being completely out of the blogging scene off late. I have really been caught up in the financial turmoil and loads of stuff happening all together at work.

I am finally going on my long deserved vacation so will be off again for another two weeks. Heading towards North India, will definitely come back and write more after the experience. Going to look for some inner peace and away from so much happening around.

Adios till then – not forever.

The Fallacy of Greener Grass

November 6, 2008





Dual Thief!

November 4, 2008

After getting tired of stealing cookies, look what Sanity Found has started stealing. No wonder there were no bananas available near my area. SF couldn’t even hide her loot – Sheesh!


Moon Navnirman Sena!

November 4, 2008

Please read this article before proceeding :

We all should support Raj Thackeray and take his initiative ahead by doing more…

  1. We should teach our kids that if he is second in class, don’t study harder.. just beat up the student coming first and throw him out of the school.
  2. Parliament should have only Delhiites as it is located in Delhi.
  3. Prime-minister, president and all other leaders should only be from Delhi.
  4. No Hindi movie should be made in Bombay. Only Marathi.
  5. At every state border, buses, trains, flights should be stopped and staff changed to local men.
  6. All Maharashtrians working abroad or in other states should be sent back as they are SNATCHING employment from Locals.
  7. Lord Shiv, Ganesha and Parvati should not be worshiped in our state as they belong to north (Himalayas).
  8. Visits to Taj Mahal should be restricted to people from UP only.
  9. Relief for farmers in Maharashtra should not come from centre because that is the money collected as Tax from whole of India, so why should it be given to someone in Maharashtra?
  10. Let’s support Kashmiri Militants because they are right in killing and injuring innocent people for the benefit of their state and community.
  11. Let’s throw all MNCs out of Maharashtra, why should they earn from us? We will open our own Maharashtra Microsoft, MH Pepsi and MH Marutis of the world.
  12. Let’s stop using cellphones, emails, TV, foreign Movies and dramas. James Bond should speak Marathi.
  13. We should be ready to die hungry or buy food at 10 times higher price but should not accept imports from other states.
  14. We should not allow any industry to be setup in Maharashtra because all machinery comes from outside.
  15. We should STOP using local trains… Trains are not manufactured by Marathi manoos and Railway Minister is a Bihari.
  16. Ensure that all our children are born, grow, live and die without ever stepping out of Maharashtra, then they will become true Marathi’s.


MNS – why don’t you guys just go and take over the Moon as well. And if you ever do, please don’t ever come back to planet earth.